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Old 08.04.2017., 23:00   #63
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"How many partners have you slept with?"

To some, this can be a very personal question, and to others, not so

much. Just because you are in a romantic relationship with a person

doesn’t give you the right to know every single thing about him or her. If

your partner wants to keep some things private, he or she has the right

to do that. If your mate has no problem sharing this information, then go

ahead and ask away. However, beware that we may not always love the

answer we get.


“What was your ex like?”

I mean… it’s pretty clear that there’s no good answer to this one, and

posing this question to your guy is just asking for trouble. First of all,

your reasoning behind the question is likely questionable – you probably

want to figure out how you compare, which is a dangerous road to go

down. And a more important thing to consider when asking the question

is what on earth are you hoping to achieve by asking it? Your guy

obviously broke up with his ex and chose to start a relationship with you,

so what his ex is like is quite frankly kind of irrelevant. This is another

one of those dumb questions that’s dumb because it opens up a can of

worms. He won’t be sure how to answer, he won’t be sure why you’re

asking, you’ll start doubting how he could love two people who were very

similar or you’ll start questioning why you’re so similar to his ex… it’s just

a big mess."

"Before you ask this question, consider what your motives are. Are you

trying to get insight into what kind of women he's attracted to? Are you

just nosy and curious? Are you jealous that he's been in love before? Now

that you've answered the why, consider this — does it really matter? If

he's not with her but he is with you, what more do you need to know?

Questions like this only make you look insecure. That relationship didn't

work out for a reason, so don't give him a reason to look back.


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